Quote EQ4U UPDATE – JANUARY 2024

The ‘kindness, friendship, courage and hope’ sentiments for New Year 2024 are encapsulated in Charlie Mackesy’s story: ‘The Boy, the Mole, the Fox and the Horse’. Its most recent broadcast (lasting 30mins) was on BBC1 on Christmas Day 2023. It you haven’t seen it before, I hope you find it moving and meaningful, and if you have, it’s a thoughtful reminder.
Link: BBC iPlayer – The Boy, the Mole, the Fox and the Horse.

‘The greatest illusion,’ said the mole, ‘is that life should be perfect. Always remember you matter, you’re important and you are loved, and you bring to this world things no one else can.’
CHARLIE MACKESY
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GRAMMAR/COMMUNICATION NOTES

Associated words for New Year 2024 sentiments:
• Sentient – having the power of perception (from Latin word sentire – to perceive)
• Solicitous – showing consideration and concern for others.
• Intrepidity – fearless, daring, bold.
• Sanguine – optimistic.

Warmest & best wishes

Quote EQ4U UPDATE – NOVEMBER 2023

Heartfelt reflections on lives lost is this month’s theme. Dedicated to all those remembering loved ones: ‘When you lose someone, they take a bigger place in your heart, not a smaller one. Every day it grows because you don’t stop loving them. You need their advice. But life doesn’t always give us what we need and it’s difficult.’ ADRIANI TRIGIANI ‘The risk of love is loss, and the price of loss is grief – but the pain of grief is only a shadow when compared with the pain of never risking love.’ HILARY STANON ZUNIN Quotes are listed in: WELL-BEING – EQ4U GRAMMAR/COMMUNICATION NOTES – to be resumed in December.

Quote EQ4U UPDATE – OCTOBER 2023

This month’s theme is about choosing your battles and audacious thinking. Only invest time, energy, and effort in unorthodox and original thinking to resolve issues where you have the potential to make a positive difference. And if informed, sagacious judgement establishes that you are powerless or incapable of stopping something, don’t waste your time trying.   ‘Don’t get in front of a ball rolling down the hill.’ JAMES PATTERSON   ‘Vertical thinking is digging the same hole deeper. Lateral thinking is trying again elsewhere.’ EDWARD de BONO   ‘Tact in audacity consists in knowing how far we may go too far.’ JEAN COCTEAU   Quotes are listed in:  AUDACITY – EQ4U     GRAMMAR/COMMUNICATION NOTES   Words associated with this month’s theme – with both negative and positive associations:   ·         Chimera – unrealistic idea or hope. ·         Imperseverant – lacking the power to perceive/ or to persevere. ·         Sentient – having the power of sense perception. ·         Perspicacious – quickly gaining insight into things (verb – perspicacity)

Quote EQ4U UPDATE – SEPTEMBER 2023

Overcoming adversity and maintaining wellbeing by focusing on purpose and beliefs is this month’s theme. Deeply meaningful quotes from a psychiatrist Holocaust victim plus a Greek philosopher prompt meaningful reflection on the power and influence of circumstantial perception: ‘Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, only by lack of meaning and purpose.’ VIKTOR FRANKL ‘It is not events, but our beliefs about them that cause us suffering.’ EPICTETUS Both quotes are listed in: WELL-BEING – EQ4U GRAMMAR/COMMUNICATION NOTES Words associated with this month’s theme: • Pertinacious – resolute /holding firmly to an opinion or course of action. • Fervent – intensity of feeling or belief. • Valorous – having strength, courage, bravery.

Quote EQ4U UPDATE – AUGUST 2023

Authenticity and trust are this month’s themes, with associated words referenced in Grammar/Communication Notes.  A quote from a tech titan, a political leader, and an astute self-reflection declaration from the master of wit:   ‘In a networked world, trust is the most important currency.’ ERIC SCHMIDT   ‘Focus not on ego but on what can be achieved.’ HASSAN DIAB ‘Be yourself – everybody else is already taken.’ OSCAR WILDE     The first two are listed in:  LEADERSHIP – EQ4U , and the third in:  WELL-BEING – EQ4U     GRAMMAR/COMMUNICATION NOTES   Words associated with authenticity and trust:   ·         Veracity – habitual truthfulness. ·         Pellucid – clear in style / meaning.

Quote EQ4U UPDATE – JULY 2023

A positive and uplifting theme this month, both for quotations and Grammar/Communication notes: ‘Argue for your possibilities, and sure enough, you will find so much more capacity and ability inside you than you have ever dreamed is possible.’ MICHAEL NEILL ‘The greatest danger for most of us is not that our aim is too high and we miss it, but it is too low and we reach it.’ MICHELANGELO The above are included in: LEARNING & ACHIEVEMENT – EQ4U GRAMMAR/COMMUNICATION NOTES Many thanks to lexicographer Susie Dent whose English language and etymology knowledge has inspired this month’s input. Words Susie notes that she would love seeing returned to use are: • Apricity – the joy of the sun on a winter’s day. • Conflicity – joy in other people’s happiness – altruistic happiness for someone else when you’ve got no agenda and you’re not earning anything from it. (Notably, the opposite of ‘schadenfreude’ – happiness in someone else’s displeasure or pain) Shropshire Magazine, June 2023, p9.

Quote EQ4U UPDATE – JUNE 2023

This month’s theme is about positivity, daring and action – including possible ‘bucket list’ inspiration! The following quotes have different but related life challenging messages:   ‘Being on the tightrope is living; everything else is waiting.’ KARL WALLENDA   ‘Avoiding danger is no safer in the long run as outright exposure. Life is either a daring adventure or nothing.’ HELEN KELLER   ‘Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn’t do than by the ones you did. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbour. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream Discover.’ MARK TWAIN   The above are all included in EQ4U’s ‘Audacity’ quotes: https://eq4u.co.uk/quotations/audacity/     GRAMMAR/COMMUNICATION NOTES   A singular noun requires a singular verb, and a plural noun a plural verb. I have an ongoing frustration from hearing what seems to be an increasing number of singular/plural verb/noun mix ups. In the first verb error example below, ‘is’ should be ‘are’ to match with the plural word ‘booths’, in the second, ‘is’ should be ‘are’ to match with plural ‘people’. And the third verb error should be ‘were’ to match with the plural ‘witnesses’.   ·         ‘There is 26 booths’ (relating to a debate about Eurovision on ‘Politics Live’ – 10.5.23 on BBC2, referenced by an MP on the programme) – Should be ‘There are….   ·         ‘There is too many people in prison’ (on Morning live 12.5.23)   ·         ‘There was no eye witnesses’ (Police officer on ‘Killer at the Crime Scene’ TV programme Channel 5 – 11.5.23)

Quote EQ4U UPDATE – MAY 2023

May 2023 – update As per last month, a personal power theme quote with a deeply meaningful reflection on how we would wish to be remembered: ‘One day you’ll just be a memory for some people. Do your best to be a good one.’ ANONYMOUS The above is listed in EQ4U’s quotes section:  CHARACTER – EQ4U    GRAMMAR/COMMUNICATION NOTES – POSITIVE WORDS:   Meliorism             – the notion that the world can be improved by human effort Rapprochement   – an establishment or resumption of harmonium relations/ cordial relationship between individuals or groups – especially ref international affairs     Solicitude             – care or concern for someone or something   Warmest & best wishes,

Quote EQ4U UPDATE – APRIL 2023

EQ4U UPDATE – APRIL

This month’s quotes reflect on the personal power we hold within us to be our best selves, to inspire motivation and to achieve wellbeing:

‘It is not in the stars to hold our destiny but in ourselves.’
WILLIAM SHAKESPEARE

‘The world is your oyster. Don’t be afraid of opening it’.
CAPTAIN SIR TOM MOORE

‘How time is slipping underneath our feet; unborn tomorrow and dead yesterday, why fret about them if today be sweet.’
EDWARD FITZGERALD

‘We hold nothing entirely in our power except our thoughts.’

DESCARTES

The above are listed in EQ4U’s quotes section:

WELL-BEING – EQ4U

*GRAMMAR/COMMUNICATION NOTES

Fewer or less? – A reminder grammar note first posted in July 2020:

The simple rule for using ‘fewer’ or ‘less’, is that if things can be counted it’s ‘fewer’, and if unable to be counted it’s ‘less’. Fewer/less distinctions have been noted on my peeve list for many years and Kathy refers to this in her ‘Top 10 misused words’ list on page 137 of her book. A couple of examples of erroneous uses of ‘less’ when it should have been ‘fewer’:

• Article, Sunday Times, June 28^th 2020, P9 – ‘Less than three months…….’
• ‘Call Me Dave’ biography, P154 – ‘Less than twelve hours earlier………’

WORD NOTE:

Equivocate (v) / equivocal (adj) – using vague or ambiguous language in order to avoid speaking directly / capable of various interpretations.

*Grammar notes are dedicated to the memory of ‘Ruthless Editor’ Kathy Watson.  Kathy’s book: ‘Grammar for people who hate rules’ is a helpful reference source. Link to book: https://amzn.to/2AaV5bE

Warmest & best wishes,

Quote EQ4U UPDATE – MARCH 2023

This month’s theme reflects the critical issue of interdependence, the relationships and connections between people, resources, and systems at international, national, organizational, team and individual levels. Notably demonstrated at international level between member countries of NATO and support for Ukraine, but seemingly frequently unrecognized between different parties involved in industrial unrest.

‘There are no problems that we cannot solve together, and very few that we can solve by ourselves.’
LYNDON B JOHNSON

The above is listed in EQ4U’s quotes section:
TEAMS – EQ4U

GRAMMAR/COMMUNICATION NOTES

A word below that reflects a positive approach to working together effectively:

• Rapprochement – an establishment or resumption of harmonium relations/ cordial relationship between individuals or groups.

Warmest & best wishes,